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9jaBooks reviews How To Be A Great Spouse by Kanu Silas Onwuchekwa

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Most of the time, we spend many years learning Mhow to be a great Accountant, Engineer, Medical Doctor, Lawyer, et cetera, and yet one day, we are retired from service or retire ourselves from our business. We hardly spend one percent of that time learning how to be A Great Spouse', our most important contract until Death doth us part'. Appreciating this anomaly, Silas has written this book as an eye-opener. Being the first son of born-again Christians, he has drawn, not only from his personal experience, but has tapped from that of his parents. It is good that How To Be A Great Spouse' is not written by those of us in old school' but by a youth, who understands his fellow youths.

Silas would not have written this book if couples
understand the implication of I do' when signing the
dotted lines. His acronym on Parents, Fathers and
Mothers are apt and it is an easy-to-remember formulae
for responsibilities. Spouses, he stressed should live in
unity, dutifully and respectfully for their own good and that
of their children. It is not that couples are not doing their
utmost towards this, what is needful is becoming great, he
emphasised.
In this journey, personal effort will crumble overtime. This
is why the author reminds us of the need to be born-again,
which does not only guarantee a home in Heaven but also
is the anchor that holds the home.
The English is flawless and the reading is smooth. I
recommend this book without any reservation for any
single who wants to marry A Great Spouse' and for the
married who want to transform to A Great Spouse'.

Osondu Anyalechi
Past Board Chairman
Scripture Union Press and Books Ltd
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Everything is settled. Charges against Jimi are dropped. T heir results are out and excellent. Jimi looks for Efua to thank her but she was nowhere to be found. Nene tells him that Efua already left the country.


Review written by Chinemerem Onuorah, you can get more information about the book by contacting her on Twitter @Mererah https://twitter.com/mererah or phone +2348108221203
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The Potter's Wheel (1973) is the first novel I've read by the Nigerian Chukwuemeka Ike. He has written quite a few (I gather that Toads for Supper is his best known work) and I'll get back around to him sometime. It's a short novel that takes us in to a village Nigeria where one of the basic elements of the local idiom is sayings, much like a Bible-based community where people communicate through chapter and verse citations. Here the young boys have riddle and proverb contests to see who knows the most. They are at times convoluted and cryptic (\"The rat who follows a lizard into the river should come out with skin as dry as the lizard's\"), but after a while the cumulative weight of them is fun in itself.

The story is a simple one of an eight-year-old boy, Ubo, who, as the only son with six older sisters, has been badly spoiled by his adoring mother. His father, a kindly man but fearing for the boy's future, sends him off for a year to be a servant of Teacher and Madam, proprietors of the local school (a mere sixty miles away), where he and an assortment of other youngsters (some of whom are the children of Teacher's debtors) are beaten, abused, and work in semi-slavery. The moral of the story is ambiguous, however. While Teacher and Madam are clearly greedy, violent people with no scruples about lying and being dangerously cruel to the children, after a year of this Obu returns for Christmas and has indeed been transformed into a dutiful, hardworking young person. Despite his initial joy at his salvation from what he had experienced as an almost unbearable hell, after some talk with his father he even chooses to voluntarily return in January.

I can't quite work out in my own conscience the balance here between the idea that a child needs to learn to endure hardship and adapt to difficult circumstances, which is surely true, and my aversion to corporal punishment of children (I am a parent myself), especially the gratuitously cruel treatment that these children receive. There is some culture clash here between author and reader. Ike is telling us about a much harder, crueler (that is, poorer) world than my own so that is part of it.

Meanwhile as in so much African literature there is constant interplay between the (in this case Igbo) vernacular and the English language (and a glossary of terms at the end). Another ubiquitous element is the discussion of food which I found fascinating. Various roots and starchy fruits are pounded into mash that is shaped into balls and dipped into herb broths; that is the basic food. There is occasional meat that is much coveted, fried termites that are considered a treat, and great attention is paid to the cola nut that plays an important role in etiquette between hosts and visitors. I'm going to look into growing cola here in Puerto Rico where I have a number of fruit trees on my land. I also enjoyed the critical, sarcastic banter that is kept up between Igbo villagers who have known each other all their lives. There is an optimism and an innocence to much of the African writing of this period that belies the stereotype of the African novel as a politicized horrorshow (even as Ike does include some pointed satire of the British colonial authorities and their native lackeys).



From http://andersonbrownliterary.blogspot.com/2009/03/chukwuemeka-ikes-wheel.html
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